| Ladies Stop Texting Me!! |
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| Written by Koop Kooper |
 There is something wrong in the state of Denmark. Texting, the Textual relationship. We are all addicted to it, we all do it and it ain't doing us any favours.In the good ol days you would use a phone to set up a date and inquire as to whether you might see her again and then perhaps later as the relationship developed you might chat a couple of times a week. One thing I have noticed from the many single girls I know is that they seem to have these mini textual relationships with men that starts of nice, gets flirtier and then dirtier and then ends abruptly. This is after one meeting in a pub mind you, no wine or dine just a passing of a number and we will see where we will go from there. I want to slap my friends silly when I hear these stories....girls please, do you see what you are doing, you are letting him do nothing, he's sitting on his fat ass using his thumb and not even working hard to win your heart. Where are the picnics, candlelight dinners, trips to the country? This is how I think a woman should be wooed, not with my thumb. And here's another thing, I refuse to do it, not playing that game sister. GIRLS, if want your man to stay interested, stop sending text messages. SMS could be sabotaging your chance of finding love. While world leaders talk about the perils of global warming, single women are bemoaning a drought of a different kind. And it seems that the era of instant communication isn't doing you any favours. The immediacy of SMS and email can also make women look overly keen - a guaranteed turn-off for men. For example, a guy sends you a text message suggesting a movie. Within four seconds, you've replied "Yes, when?, where? what time?" and "when can I c u again?" Worst of all, it can make you look desperate. One friend of mine got herself ina complete tizz over the lack of a text message.By the evening she had convinced herself he was having an affair, the relationship was over, and she was a single girl again. When he called the next day he couldn't understand the drama. His only problem was a flat battery. Another friend checked her phone 300 times after messaging a love interest to see if he was free for a drink. Four hours later, she receives a reply, but in the 240 minutes that have passed, she turned herself into a nervous wreck checking her phone, just in case she missed the call. Go back to the basics, rely on your natural instinct and charm, don't give too much of yourself away, and in extreme cases, throw your cell phone in the bin. The old adage of "Keep 'em keen, treat 'em mean" has changed with the times but the principle remains. In this hi-tech, gadget-obsessed world, where we have information at our fingertips, dating is one more aa where we need to step back. So turn off your cell phone. Stop logging on to your computer at midnight and checking emails. Go for a walk, write a love letter, and keep smiling. |
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